A StoryTeller discussion: Love and Sex

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There is many similarities and differences on both these subjects both with its ups and downs, so lets begin.   

Love, most hardest subject to explain in words.   So what is Love?   Well love can be shown in different ways, to a person, to a object, a creature or even a subject.   When we think it, mos of us think couples, most commonly the male and female couples.   Since Love is portrayed in too many ways I can count, I'll stay with the subject of the person to person love.   When it comes to a person's life, we feel somehow we want someone we know we can trust to hold, talk to, share ideas with, go out and do stuff, and to most, show our passion.   When we do find that person, we feel such joy in our hearts, happy we found a true person that you know you will love forever.   Its a wonderful feeling, but sometimes you feel like you find it, it isn't what you hoped.   Couples will have their differences and their fights, and they feel so frustrated, but little you know, its part of a relationship.  But some give up too soon, it can be because they cannot relate any more, there is too much or too little in the relationship, or they want love for selfish reasons.   It all depends if each persons want a legit real relationship.   Love is suppose to be something both you and your partner should cherish, if your willing to go through a relationship.   Feeling loved and giving love in return is the greatest thing about love, even if some couples are different, it boils down to showing love.    Some may not like the romantic stuff, but I'm sure they still seek love right?   As a wise man once told me, no one is ment to be alone, are you?  does friends show love in kindness?   or parents and relatives show care?   Even a pet can care too, if you have anyone or any thing that cares and you show it to them and others in return, you have love.   Love is a very powerful thing, cherish it well.   Now the big thing about love is what is included, most men would say or think sex correct?   Well yes, if in a relationship there can be, but it can't be all the time.   Sex is something else entirely, but also connected to love in the same way.   You see in Sex, why do it?  is it to have a kid? to feel good? to show your partner how you feel beyond words? to just have someone in your bed? most maybe, but with exceptions, it depends on the person.   Personally I rather have sex when I truly love someone, and like to do it when she is ready, but mostly to show her love that doesn't need words.   But its also more to feel good.   Sex can help you in good ways, such as boost in confidence, improve health, and greater sense of well being, and plus its suppose to be fun.   (for the record, I'm not trying to promote sex, this is just a discussion) There are downsides to it though, it depends on who you do it with, some want it for selfish reasons, its beyond wrong on how some want sex for their own pleasure, its not only wrong, but can be hurtful to your partner.   It's my opinion, I know guys would say different in love and sex, but I'm trying to cover the good and bad in my own opinions. 

I try to compare both as much as I can, and as I know most would say I missed a bunch, hopefully you can tell me and I'll answer it if I missed, or if you have your own question, feel free to ask, just remember sex isn't everything, and love is worth more than anything, you agree with anything I said?  
Hope I did well in this discussion better than the last one

See you later in the next discussion on "What makes a man a Man" 

~StoryTeller288
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Redfurry9's avatar
Hm I believe that love is what we are disposed to do for a person, no matter the consequences, of course if the actions carried out in the name of love hurts other people, it will not be love, it will be obssesion and desperation. Love builds not destroys. ;w;